After numerous of conversations I have been in or overheard in the last couple of months, I have something to say and hope the world is listening. In today’s society marriage seems to be something that is not sacred or valued. So many times as women we are quick to point the fingers at men for the collapse of marriage and the rise of extramarital affairs. I know that it happens both ways, and I know that there are many women who have cheated on their husbands, but we just hear more about the men. The thing that is really striking my nerves is that women need to take a look at the other women that are in our husbands lives. Too many times in today society marriage crumbles and tragedy strikes among those you know. There are many women among us who do not value our marriage and are predators awaiting the right moment to attack our husbands. They know your issues, they know some of the problems you face, they maybe a close friend of yours, or just a “friend” that your husband may talk to nonchalantly or confide his heart with, or even worse someone you have opened your heart to. So many times women feel blindsided by the affair but it was happening right under their nose. I just want to throw my thoughts out there that women, you need to take a good look at who the other women are in your life as well as your husbands. If something doesn’t seem right, question it, and if it comes down to it, ask that the relationship end. Men, you need to guard your marriage and set boundaries with other female acquaintances or friends. If a women ever crosses the line, don’t ignore the issue or flirt around with her, draw a line and stand up for your marriage. Affairs just don’t happen over night.
My message to women out there that prey on someone else’s husband is: stop!!!! Quit disrespecting yourself, disrespecting him, disrespecting his wife, disrespecting God’s design and God himself. How desperate do you have to be to try and lure a married man or make excuses for your behavior? More than likely the only thing you will gain form this relationship is a broken heart and someone else’s broken marriage at your expense. If he does leave his wife for you, you gain a man who tells you from the beginning he can’t be trusted and maybe next time you will be the one sitting at home wondering why he stepped out on you. I just am so dumbfounded by other women, it kills me. Get some self worth and self respect; quit being the destroyer of marriages. And if you didn’t know he was married but found out, leave… because if you stay you are just as low as the women who knew. Ok I am done ranting, but this has just been brewing inside of me.
IS THERE ANYONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT FEELS THIS????
